Sometimes is just funny to look back wadever things we did, happened to see someone's blog by chance, a guy who is so upset over a breakup. Even though he tried to salvage the relationship, somehow or rather all is gone, for that even he had mend his ways & treated her well compared to last time, the damage had been done.
He went nearby her hse in hope, only to see some rich guy fetching her home & looking quite close in touch.
& he thought they're in love.
TRUST.
He wrote in his blog : had she completely forgotten over what they had been thru?
the reason that she chose to breakup was just an excuse to start a new relationship?
& by doing wadever things to hurt urself is it worth the while? only if u have treated her well earlier on?
Seriously, I had played mind games before, & w/o trust everything just comes into ur mind & begin guessing and doubting. Is this wad we consider as a relationship?
I don't think so now.
Try to put urself in the gal's shoe. Do u think she isn't sad at all over this relationship?
Or rather trying to salvage it?
I believed she did.
Now that she's finally taking the courage to choose to end,
learn how to accept it.
Love is fragile, u break it, u try to fix it, the crack still remains.
Nothing is impossible though, rather than salvaging & making her vexed,
why not try to change ur thinking 1st?
Grow up, be more mature.
I hope u can do it, the main factor is
TIME.
I believe she hopes to see changes in u as well
& learning to accept the new "U"
:)
how old was the dude? funny how kids like to think big romantic thoughts about love and commitment and all that jazz... Takes time and exp to actually understand what it truly is all about.. First you love...then you don't... And if you truly did, how do you find another that fast? Or in fact, ever truly give up on the first? Just like the love you have for your parents. You're alright most of the time but sometimes you just hate them. But you don't go looking for new parents!! You accept, you change/they change and everything goes back to the way it was...kinda anyways. So what's with the "I don't wanna see you!!" or "I can't bear to see her/him.." They say it's cause you love too much...but the truth is that it's just superficial and most of us just love with our loins...to put it crudely. Love is about compromise and acceptance. Compromising over the little things and accepting in totality of the way things are and also how they turn out.
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